A few posts back I mentioned how difficult 'special days' seem to be in our home, and how I am trying to make things better; keep the day calm, find some patience, take time for fun things, be more flexible with the kids, be more willing to teach gently, and show my husband some extra kindness. I think I'm failing in some of those areas. And now comes the biggest of all the 'special days'; Christmas. I have so many fond memories of Christmas's...